ms spock
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The other thing is mentally imagine yourself pounding in his gonads. (I am not violent, civil disobedience.)
No real practical application, really, except to potentially make you smile. ;) And perhaps to not take what he is saying so seriously.
If you wanted to be really naughty you could say. "Oh can you wait a minute, until I finish mentally pounding your gonads in for being such a twat!" Nope don't say it. But you can think it. It could give you a moment of distance.
Or ask him if he feels like disco dancing? Say you have an online friend who is a great disco dancer, and she uses it to let off stress. ;)
Or would he like to buy a punching bag in order to let his stress out on it? Or is there another way he can express his frustration rather than taking it out on you?
No real practical application, really, except to potentially make you smile. ;) And perhaps to not take what he is saying so seriously.
If you wanted to be really naughty you could say. "Oh can you wait a minute, until I finish mentally pounding your gonads in for being such a twat!" Nope don't say it. But you can think it. It could give you a moment of distance.
Or ask him if he feels like disco dancing? Say you have an online friend who is a great disco dancer, and she uses it to let off stress. ;)
Or would he like to buy a punching bag in order to let his stress out on it? Or is there another way he can express his frustration rather than taking it out on you?