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Deleted my mother's phone number out of my phone. I no longer have it and cannot look it up anymore. Deleted the text messages.
This might put a dent in holidays but I'd rather spend holidays alone than with her controlling ass.
The last holiday I spent with her was Thanksgiving and I had two glasses of wine. I wasn't driving anywhere, I'm a grown adult, I have a good job and was surrounded by family. She would watch me like a f*cking hawk across the room. She would follow me outside to make sure I wasn't drinking anymore. But she doesn't mind if my brother drinks, she doesn't try to control him. And when she's around, the air is so f*cking tense and I can only move slowly because she watches every move I make closely. I don't feel safe around her. She gives me the creeps and is controlling. I don't drink anymore but, f*ck, can't she just get off my back? I moved away to get away from my abuser and she's constantly trying to get me to move back. If I meet someone, she tries to convince me to dump them if they "stop" me from moving back, as if I don't make up my own mind. And if I visit and don't stay with her, it's a problem. Even though I have friends and other family, she gets pissed and guilt trips me if I don't visit her and stay with her every time I'm in town.
Well she's off my back now, I guess.
This might put a dent in holidays but I'd rather spend holidays alone than with her controlling ass.
The last holiday I spent with her was Thanksgiving and I had two glasses of wine. I wasn't driving anywhere, I'm a grown adult, I have a good job and was surrounded by family. She would watch me like a f*cking hawk across the room. She would follow me outside to make sure I wasn't drinking anymore. But she doesn't mind if my brother drinks, she doesn't try to control him. And when she's around, the air is so f*cking tense and I can only move slowly because she watches every move I make closely. I don't feel safe around her. She gives me the creeps and is controlling. I don't drink anymore but, f*ck, can't she just get off my back? I moved away to get away from my abuser and she's constantly trying to get me to move back. If I meet someone, she tries to convince me to dump them if they "stop" me from moving back, as if I don't make up my own mind. And if I visit and don't stay with her, it's a problem. Even though I have friends and other family, she gets pissed and guilt trips me if I don't visit her and stay with her every time I'm in town.
Well she's off my back now, I guess.