She Cat Banned

[Fragile]

Message To Nicolette

Dear Nicolette,
"Pot calling the kettle black"... with regard to this remark on your part, I am not a man hater as the implication implies. I'm not married or have children because I was sexually brutalized during most of my childhood. I dislike men and women alike, just where life experiences have finally brought me to but I do love animals and always will. I shouldn't have said anything. A self defeating part of myself took over as it frequently does. Long-standing abuse and trauma does things to people. I have a lot of problems, as many people do on this site. I sabotaged myself with my posts there. It is something I have a tendency to do and seems out of my control sometimes, for whatever reason.

I don't care if I am banned. Get busy and ban me too if that works for you.

Misty

 

[anthony]

Maybe she's being used as an example of what can happen to any of us if we step out of line. The so-called carer who made the inflammatory, derogatory comment, evidently about women, wasn't dealt with at all and the founder being male himself, it is kind of disturbing that way.

Maybe you should ask a few more questions about my decisions before making such half arsed assumptions!!! There are members here who have known me for years, and I them, and are quite well versed in my decision making, approach and methods on forum administration... maybe you should question more before asserting statements!!!

I will repeat what Nicolette stated, which may of been missed. This has nothing to do with the conversation in the carer forum, it extends beyond that to past behaviour, and more importantly, recent posts in the private areas of the forum. Enough excuses, enough ignorance and tolerance on my behalf, She Cat is banned and that is not going to change in the immediate future.

Added: As per your repeated desire through posting to be banned Fragile, your wish is granted. One month. It seems you continually mention how you have been banned from other sites, so that says something to me about you merely wanting to cause trouble and not be part of a community, but instead a focal point of the community.