I have a relationship question but do not wish to create a whole new thread when I already have this one. It sort of relates to abandonment so I'm going to go ahead and ask.
As many of you know my boyfriend and I have been having difficulties. I haven't spoken to him all week. We got into a huge fight this past Saturday over the same issue.
Here's the scenario: my boyfriend will not return my calls for a day or two or forgets to call me when he says he will. I call, he doesn't call me back. I call the next day, he doesn't answer. I go to his house, he's there hanging out. I'm like wtf? But he acts as if nothing's wrong and says hey and proceeds to hang out with me for the evening as if I haven't been trying to call him the past two days. It makes me feel like he doesn't care but then I have a key to his house and can come and go when we are on good terms. I know it has nothing to do with infidelity because we are free to access each other's phone in our relationship so he's not hiding anything. I'm confused.
We are now scheduling our conflicts. Should I bring this up at our next appointment or accept he's just this way and not take it personally? It def gives me plenty of opportunity to work on my abandonement panic but at the same time am I asking too much if I request daily communication?
As many of you know my boyfriend and I have been having difficulties. I haven't spoken to him all week. We got into a huge fight this past Saturday over the same issue.
Here's the scenario: my boyfriend will not return my calls for a day or two or forgets to call me when he says he will. I call, he doesn't call me back. I call the next day, he doesn't answer. I go to his house, he's there hanging out. I'm like wtf? But he acts as if nothing's wrong and says hey and proceeds to hang out with me for the evening as if I haven't been trying to call him the past two days. It makes me feel like he doesn't care but then I have a key to his house and can come and go when we are on good terms. I know it has nothing to do with infidelity because we are free to access each other's phone in our relationship so he's not hiding anything. I'm confused.
We are now scheduling our conflicts. Should I bring this up at our next appointment or accept he's just this way and not take it personally? It def gives me plenty of opportunity to work on my abandonement panic but at the same time am I asking too much if I request daily communication?