Chris-duck
Policy Enforcement
So, my story is CSA/DV as a kid, ran away to different places, ended up in England, ended up in some situation that I'm not sure how to define. And it hasn't really bugged me that I can't define it until now cos I was just like "meh yah. Bunch of non consensual sex with a bunch of dudes". But my last T didn't really get it. She got individual times, but didn't get the surrounding weirdness. I've not seen anyone else describe a similar thing here, but I dunno if I've just missed it. Best I've described it is:
I dunno why it matters, it just frustrates me that I'm always like "kinda that, but not because..." So anyone have anything similar? Or know how to define it? Or whatever.
Disclaimer: I'll probably post this then immediately regret it, not let myself delete it so totally ignore it until I grow some balls. I appreciate replies, I just suck :laugh:
But that lead people to say sex trafficking, which I also don't think totally fits because I didn't see or suspect money was exchanging hands, and when I decided to leave England nobody tried to stop me.So there's a group of 8 guys in (England) (with other ones coming and going but yah, whatever) who are mostly "directed" (wrong word, I'll fix it later) by a guy A in his 40s (multiple fake IDs with different dates of birth, but probs 40s). He would usually pick one girl and tell the other guys who they could sleep with and when because the girl he picked would have to bring a friend to be allowed in. He would start off treating the girl he picked really well then would start treating her badly, it was usually someone vulnerable so they'd already be quite attached. He'd let other guys sleep with her too.
There was also a group of women in their late 20s+ who had been involved with the guys for a long time. This group was quite mixed, some women would have picked one guy as their "boyfriend" to hope to be left alone, or would encourage guys to go for newer girls for the same reason. Other women in this group would feel protective of the newer girls and try to get them to run. But by the time most people met these women the guys would already all know their faces so they'd be too deep in anyway unless they had left the city.
It would start off in As house, he would have whatever girl he picked and would invite one other guy at a time for the other one. Neither girl really got a say in it, because it had already been arranged. The girls could negotiate to swap guys with each other but both girls were gonna have to sleep with someone. Most of the time the guys didn't really care what way it went. At the start the girls would fight and argue and try to get out or try to convince A for the keys but it didn't work so they kind of gave up. After the first visit to As all the guys had met the girls on the last day so they could leave and that was it over.
After that the girls started getting approached by these men while out in public (supermarkets, clubs, walks, whatever), it started off with the men trying to convince the girls to go back to theirs. One girl said yes, and one said no. When this girl said no A would get called and treat the girl who said yes badly, so that girl would say that it was better to just start saying yes, cos it was happening anyway. One girl kept saying no though and kept fighting back so violence started escalating for both girls. The men stopped trying to convince either girl and started threatening and just dragging the girls to the nearest one of the guys houses. As this went on, more and more guys knew of the girls and were able to act the same way so frequency kept increasing.
Blahblahblah. That's the end.
I dunno why it matters, it just frustrates me that I'm always like "kinda that, but not because..." So anyone have anything similar? Or know how to define it? Or whatever.
Disclaimer: I'll probably post this then immediately regret it, not let myself delete it so totally ignore it until I grow some balls. I appreciate replies, I just suck :laugh: