ETA, And was thinking, trying to pull for people with losses or impending ones and suffering, chronic and acute, as I have been through the same, but even as recent as 2020 with immediate family, these others did not for me/ them. And barely acknowledged their death(s), nor my grief. I have a lot to think about with that, and what it showed, or means/ infers.. Though quite frankly, I won't be wasting a lot of time thinking on it, except for decision making. Think it's pretty obvious, even to a stupid-as* like me.
And maybe too that's just misfounded expectation on my part: just be grateful for what I can be grateful for. There are no requirements for care or sincerity from others, why think so? Unnecessary and not founded. Irrelevant.
And maybe too that's just misfounded expectation on my part: just be grateful for what I can be grateful for. There are no requirements for care or sincerity from others, why think so? Unnecessary and not founded. Irrelevant.
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