What are your pet peeves ?

[Dynamic]

pet peeve about myself: letting people walk in and out of my life. since trauma seems I'm weakened. need to strengthen self

 

[Teasel]

Printers. Total bastards.

 

[notsurewheretoturn]

Housing associations who advertise properties before they're ready to be let.

I was offered a property at the end of February, keys have still not been handed back. Six weeks later I haven't even been told if i can view it yet, but because I'm classed as having a suitable offer pending, I can't apply for anything else.

I am so sick of people using the waiting game as a control technique.

 

[whiteraven]

People who promise to train you on something, then don't and pretty much leave you hanging (and having to do the job anyway).

 

[Dynamic]

Kids socks everywhere! But they have no socks?!

 

[Friday]

I.
Bullshit emotional games.

II.
People who assume that *I* am playing those games, because they do. Nope! But thanks for the heads up that you are soooooo not someone I want in my life! Shudder. Bullet? Dodged.

 

[Givrali]

Random people thinking they can help my life long problems after talking to me like 5 minutes

 

[notsurewheretoturn]

Neighbours who think I can sort out their problems because they can't be bothered. I didn't have kids for a reason people, and I'm not about to take on adult ones!

 

[Teasel]

Losing things / Not being able to find a thing. Seem to spend far too much of my life looking for things as I get older.

So annoying.

 

[Freddyt]

Losing things / Not being able to find a thing. Seem to spend far too much of my life looking for things as I get older.

So annoying.

It's not just getting older. I used to know where things I put away years ago were.....now since trauma 2, I cant remember where the sunglasses in my hand are......

 

[SeekingAfrica]

It's not just getting older. I used to know where things I put away years ago were.....now since trauma 2, I cant remember where the sunglasses in my hand are......

Ugh. Brain fog. I hate that. Gets better with time (at least it did for me) but really sucks. You can possibly work on memory, but brain fog sort of blindsides you. You just don't function like usually. Still happens to me when I get really triggered. Hope it gets at least a bit better for you too.

Pet peeve for me is learning all I can about PTSD and anxiety and depression, learning coping skills, adapting, putting a LOT of hard work to be better... and then sometimes getting so triggered randomly and all my coping going out the window. And being out of control. Drives me nuts.

 

[Weemie]

Being in this motherf*cking piece of shit city. I hope a hurricane sinks it into the sea.