talon
Policy Enforcement
I think first you need to stop making apologies for wanting help and someone to talk to . It's direct because it needs to be. You cannot help others until you sort yourself every counsellor knows that . It seems as i read this it would be good for you to do so to as if the roles are reversed. When we love truly love someone whether in need or not we put them 1st before all others . Do let yourself be used or be sidelined you are a special person and there are many who know it although you may not be aware of the fact. You may need to be direct to and ask your best friend if you are their best friend also as at times it does not feel that way to you . Don't be afraid you have nothing to fear but fear itself . Here is a good place to start you may have different opinions expressed and you may choose to discard or take on board if you feel it's of value . You need to be well for you and when you are then and only then can you even consider helping another. That's not being selfish it's a coping mechanism . In my time working in mental health i saw so many loving soul becoming unwell because of their concerns for others before self. Be kind to yourself and remember yesterday is history ,tomorrow a mystery all we really have is today and today is a gift which is why we call it the present . Dad taught me that and he is gone but still speaks RobbieI'm sorry if im not in the right place, but i honestly just need people to talk to who have more e...